Finding The Gifts While Navigating Difficult Relationships balance coaching lifestyle Dec 10, 2024

 

 

 

“Sometimes the poorest man leaves his children the richest inheritance.”
―Ruth E. Renkel

 

 

It is incredible to look back at your life and recognize the critical moments that led you to become the unique human being you are today.  Many people,...

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Stop Shoulding All Over Yourself balance lifestyle Oct 01, 2024

 

 

“The word ‘should’ is an enemy of growth and a thief of joy.”
―Kevin Ngo
 

 

 


The first time I heard the phrase “shoulding all over yourself,” I laughed.  As a gastroenterologist, I have a particular affinity for poop...

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Embracing Joy: Don't Let Fear Steal Your Happiness balance family feelings lifestyle Sep 17, 2024

  

 

“We’re afraid that the feeling of joy won’t last, or that the other shoe is going to drop. We think, ‘I’m feeling good, this can’t be right; something bad is going to happen.’” 

—Brené Brown

 

 

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Living In Integrity balance goals lifestyle Sep 10, 2024

 

 

“If you have integrity, nothing else matters. 

If you don’t have integrity, nothing else matters.”

–Harvey Mackay

  

 

Here’s something I never thought I’d say: I attended a conference for entrepreneurs. Over the years,...

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The Undeniable Burden Of Shame balance lifestyle Aug 20, 2024

 

 

“Shame corrodes the very part of us that believes we are capable of change.” 

—Brené Brown

 

 

In her book, I Thought It Was Just Me (But It Isn’t), Brené Brown takes the time to distinguish the difference between guilt...

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Do Nothing Goals balance goals lifestyle Aug 13, 2024

 

 

“Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is relax.” 

—Mark Black

 

 

In August 2022, I gave myself one job: Do nothing. My goal was to rest, rejuvenate and relax. I have spent so much of my life hustling and achieving that a much-needed rest was undoubtedly in order....

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The Power Of Context balance coaching lifestyle Jul 30, 2024

 

  

“Life does not change if you only modify the content,

your life will change if you will dare to alter the context.”

–Santosh Kalwar

 

 

Have you heard the commencement speech given by David Foster Wallace, called This Is Water? I hadn’t....

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How Do You Value Your Time? balance lifestyle May 28, 2024

 

 

“Time is the most valuable thing a man can spend.”
―Theophrastus

 

 

 

Fact: No one will value your time as much as you do. 

 

 

Time is undoubtedly our most valuable and limited resource.  Every day, so many people and things vie for...

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The Epidemic of Work Dread balance lifestyle May 21, 2024

 

 

 

“Monday is like a math problem.  Add the irritation, subtract the sleep, multiply the problems, divide the happiness.”
―Unknown
 

 

 

Work dread.  You know the feeling even if you didn’t know it had a name.  It is that sensation...

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The Power Of Community coaching lifestyle May 15, 2024

 

 

 

“Alone, we can do little; together, we can do so much.”
―Helen Keller
 

 

 

For all its traumas, one of the most incredible gifts bestowed upon doctors is the community created during medical training.  When I think back to my Internal Medicine...

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Ending Compare And Despair coaching goals lifestyle Nov 15, 2022

 

 

 

“To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.”

—Ralph Waldo Emerson

 

 

We are taught from an early age to avoid comparing ourselves to others.  Then, we are sent off to school,...

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The Strength In Vulnerability goals lifestyle May 03, 2022

 

 

 

 

“Owning our story can be hard but not nearly as difficult as spending our lives running from it.  Embracing our vulnerabilities is risky but not nearly as dangerous as giving up on love and belonging and joy—the experiences that make us the most...

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